The #1 Mistake People Make Before Filing for Divorce in Arizona
(And How to Protect Yourself From It)
When people finally reach the point where divorce is on the table, they’re usually overwhelmed, emotional, and unsure where to start. That’s completely normal. But there’s one mistake I see over and over again — and it causes delays, extra costs, and unnecessary stress.
And it happens before they even file.
The #1 Mistake People Make:
Filing Before They’re Prepared
Most people rush to file because they’re hurt, scared, or trying to “get ahead” of their spouse. But filing without being prepared often leads to:
Missing documents
Incorrect forms
Delayed processing
Rejections from the court
Extra fees
And sometimes, having to start completely over
Arizona’s divorce process is straightforward when done correctly — but it can be unforgiving if you skip steps or use the wrong paperwork.
Why Does This Happen So Often?
1. People don’t know which forms actually apply to their situation.
There isn’t just “one divorce packet.”
There are different forms depending on:
Whether you have children
What property is involved
Whether you’re serving someone in Arizona or elsewhere
Whether both parties are cooperating
Missing even one required document causes issues later.
2. They rely on generic templates made for all 50 states.
Arizona has its own requirements, specific language, and formatting.
Nationwide templates — especially automated ones — don’t always match what Arizona courts expect.
3. They assume they can “fix it later.”
Divorce filings are the foundation of your case. Incorrect foundations create complications down the road with:
Parenting plans
Property division
Court deadlines
Service of process
Final decree accuracy
It’s always easier to do it right the first time.
What You Should Do Instead
You don’t need to become an expert — you just need to be prepared.
✔ Get your documents ready ahead of time
Gather basics like:
Marriage date
Separation date (if applicable)
Children's information
Property details
Addresses for service
Any existing orders
Having this in front of you speeds up the entire process.
✔ Make sure you’re using the correct Arizona forms
Every county is slightly different.
At All Rise LDP, I prepare documents using current, court-approved requirements, making sure they are accurate for your exact situation.
✔ Understand the steps before you file
You don't need legal advice — just a clear path:
File the correct documents
Serve the other party properly
Track deadlines
Prepare the consent decree or default judgment
Submit your final paperwork correctly
When you know what’s coming, nothing feels overwhelming.
The Bottom Line
Most divorce stress isn’t caused by the divorce itself — it’s caused by confusion, missing paperwork, and things not being done correctly at the beginning.
If you avoid the #1 mistake of filing before you’re prepared, the entire process becomes more manageable.
And I’m here to help you do exactly that.
Need Arizona Court-Ready Divorce Documents?
I prepare:
Divorce petitions
Parenting plans
Child support worksheets
Consent decrees
Property agreements
Service paperwork
QDROs
And more
Accurate Arizona paperwork. Clear communication. Affordable options.
All without the stress of doing it alone.